Thank you, Julia, Vraz60, Sunny, Friend of the Bear and Dawne, for great advice and encouragement.
I was asking for advice with tongue in cheek, knowing I would get the advice given. I know it is an impossiblity to reach the 60 x 60 target now. I now want to lose three stone by my birthday, that is 42 pounds and I have lost 34.5 of them so I think it is very doable.
I got an early birthday present form Ralph today, he has paid for a new gym membership for me and I go for my induction on Monday at 5:30pm. I was a member of the gym over the way from us last year and was enjoying it until my back seized up in October. Now my back is behaving..shhshhh I was talking about stepping up my exercise this morning and my darling man suggested the gym near where I work. He said he would pay as part of my birthday present and within an hour I was all signed up:o)
It is a great set up with a huge Cardio gym, a separate Ladies Gym, a full floor of weight's and resistance machines and a dance/workout studio. They do Zumba and I have been wanting to try that for ages, I met a very dear friend there while being shown round the facilities. She was doing Body Combat and Cardio Pump one hour of each...She is very fit and certainly doesn't look 55.
So I will be stepping up the exercise, I will not be cutting my calories but I will be looking at how I am using them. I have a month of celebrations starting Thursday and will be out every weekend for meals with different groups of friends. So I am going to have to be VERY GOOD during the week..lol
Again thank you for great advice and cheeky comments...Yes Dawnie..Yours...lol