To make something less complicated and therefore easier to do or understand. I am working on it, but it is not simple!!
Having a rest from it today, getting ready for my weekend with Trish. Cannot wait, we do so much talking,laughing some crying even. We always have the best of times. We need those times, she held me up for years in my unhappiness as I struggled to keep going in a sad marriage. She now revels in my happiness and is witness to a complete turnaround in my life. I have the privileged of 'looking after' Trish when we have our weekends. These are her 'respite' weekends' where she is removed from her very busy daily life. Where she is making decisions and organising many people hourly in her working life. In her personal life she has to make every decision that a married couple make together as her husband is not capable due to brain injury. From what to have for tea, to whether to sell up and downsize. When she is with me the only decision she has to make is wether to have another coffee or not. She is an amazing woman, dearly loved by all that know her. I am so blessed that she is my Bezzy Mate.